Reasons Not to Get Married (From a Man’s POV)
By continentalman on Nov 9, 2006 in Girlfriend!
- Your new wife will get fat.
- Your new wife will quit her PR/HR/advertising/publishing job to stay at home.
- Your new wife, because she will be staying at home, will want to start having kids.
On Nov 9, 2006, Anonymous said:
Word.
On Nov 9, 2006, anon said:
ugh. i’m feel sick just thinking about it.
On Nov 9, 2006, Anonymous said:
check.
check.
check.
On Nov 9, 2006, anon said:
check.
check.
check.
On Nov 10, 2006, Anonymous said:
Ok then, don’t have kids. Your bloodline will die togheter with you. No big loss. Geez….you brainwashed people really suck!
On Nov 10, 2006, Anonymous said:
We forgot one job: art consulting
On Nov 12, 2006, anony said:
oh no, you can certainly still poke a few chicks and have some kids to carry on the line, but just don’t get married.
If you must though, I personally feel the italian mafioso did it right - hang with the wife on friday and the girlfriend on saturday.
On Nov 14, 2006, Rich Bitter said:
How about, American women are arrogant, gold-digging, monkey-loving biatches? That’s reason enough to marry one.
On Jan 8, 2007, gianna and chantelle said:
wellwho would want 2 get married 2 you men all u do is sit on ya fats asses n drink beer lol
On Jan 8, 2007, gianna and chantelle said:
i love beeing a gold ggging biacth loooooool
On Jan 8, 2007, James Triggs said:
Gianna and Chantelle, surely you mean “WE love being gold digging biatches”. There are two of you. Bad grammar is so not hot.
I need a shower.
On Jan 16, 2007, anon said:
american women have increased their slut factor by 10x. This is necessary to compensate for their pathetic, vapid minds. Marry a European girl. now that’s real living.
On Feb 2, 2007, the most intelligent being on the planet said:
it’s incredibly easy to tell who is male and who is female on the page of comments. the males are sexist against females and the females are sexist against the males. everyone’s a jerk. i think that you shouldn’t get married if you are having even one thought against it and if you think that it will work out great, more power to you.
On Feb 26, 2007, Loser said:
I THINK THAT GUYS WILL JUST FUCKING CHEAT ON U AND JUST WANT SEX ALL THE TIME BUT HELL STILL MARRY THEM THEIR HOT
On Feb 26, 2007, Loser said:
DO U HAVE SOMETHING AGAINEST AMERICAN GIRLS ANAN
On Mar 2, 2007, gg said:
European, American, and Asian women…ah so many choices!
I have had experience with all three and I’d say European ladies are more emotionally mature and interesting on an intellectual level. I think Asian and American girls from age 20 to 28 have been infected by the annoying Brittney Spears complex.
It’s not all bad though - American girls are certainly fun and I enjoy honing my gamesmanship on them.
On Mar 8, 2007, bud said:
This will sound bad but its all about how you train your lady from the begining and what you look for.
Find a girl thats not as much into money, dont spend a ton on her especially in the begining and always make her wonder where she stands with you. So when you are with her solo and you give her attention she will eat out of your hand.
Personally i work a alot and have other interests outside the office so I’m not hounding my girl like a sad puppy looking for attention. I also do not blow money stupidly on my girl to buy her attention. I see too many of my friends do that and all they get is a girl that wants their wallet not them.
I’ve been with my lady for over a year now and she had a really nice bod before but she now is kicking. Have not had kids yet so not sure what the residual affect will be but for now things are even better.
On Mar 19, 2007, ayoub said:
i’ll wait your reponse
On Mar 19, 2007, ayoub said:
hi,i’m from morocco,in april i’ll travel to italy and i want to get married with a lady and a nice lady ‘i wait your reponse
On Mar 19, 2007, ayoub said:
i like a woman
On Mar 23, 2007, sylvia said:
I have been married for over 10 years and dating the same man for 13 years. I completely resent the statment that American women are gold digging, monkeys…or whatever you said. I am a hard working woman who financially takes care of my husband when he needs and don’t fault him at all. For you to generalize all American women this way is not only insulting, but speaks a lot about the kind of person that you are.
On Mar 23, 2007, sylvia said:
If you are up to an intellectual conversation from an American woman, try me, I might surprise you. It sounds like all you see of American women are on TV or on the streets. Try talking to an actual American Woman with some intelligence.
On Mar 28, 2007, Erin said:
This is ridiculous! Stay at home and get fat? If anything I want a stay at home husband. I’ll have the kids, but after recovering he can have my post-pregnancy leave.
On Apr 2, 2007, Jenn said:
I think it is unfortunate that so many of you have so many biases. We are all unique individuals with unique points of view, backgrounds, cultures, upbringings, and so forth that have shaped who we are and who we are looking for to be our companion. Ultimately, we all just want to belong. To one person, to a group, and to our world. Finding that on the 1:1 level is a gift and a blessing. Choose it wisely, but try not to judge others so much along the way, and try to just be who you want by your side, not shape them and mold them and manipulate with coercion, mind games and so forth. Just be yourself and strive to be, as I said before, who you want as your companion, who you want to belong with and to and for… beloved…
On Jun 17, 2007, John said:
Marriage is too stressful. I mean holding a full time job and then catering to the marriage afterwards. No wonder so many men die younger than their women counterparts!!
On Jun 25, 2007, yo said:
http://www.nomarriage.com
all successful american men should consider this gospel.
On Jul 7, 2007, Cy said:
With today’s morals and values lacking in both sexes I would agree on the no marriage issue. No this is not a suggestion to live together either it is simply a very old fashioned ideal that worked for many who are still successfully married today. It is called dating and being committed to one person. Not shacking up together before marriage, not playing house to see if you like it and give it a trial run, waiting and dating and doing it the way it should be done. Individuals getting their goals achieved, before entering into a marriage with someone and then expecting them to bankroll the relationship for you. It is too easy for women these days to use sex, looks, whatever they can to get a man in bed and therefore into his head. {Both of them} Men made this happen, and women caught on to how to play the game.
Men need to get back to basics and stop playing with the bad girls and look for the women who are productive in their lives, who do not need a man but would like to have a relationship with a partner and someday marry. There is a big difference there.
One wants everything you have, the other wants to build it with you and share it with you.
Think before you act…….
Yes I am a woman.
On Jul 19, 2007, mrpiltdown said:
There is some solid feedback above. I guess the only source of confusion for me is this: why are there only three reasons?
On Jul 20, 2007, anu said:
i just got eng’d to i-banker nyc gosh!!!! we met for 4 times in 1.5 moths that too for 2.30 hrs each time..
heck with the blackberry - seems mistressssssssssssssssssssssss
On Jul 22, 2007, Jason said:
Screw that…American women are the worst…Yes there may be exceptions but most of them are useless. Most American chicks are fat, lacking self confidence to do anything with their lives, over-dependent on men and irrational. I lived in both Canada and U.S. and there is HUGE difference in the quality of women…
For
On Jul 23, 2007, anon said:
unfortunately, the retarded female backslide is not isolated to the US - it just started here. in a generation, we’ll see it everywhere as the US exports the latest cultural phenomenon.
On Aug 31, 2007, anon said:
I personally like foreign men alot more than I like American men.I am especially into the Latinos because they are sooo suave, and generous in bed :).They have family values and they respect the women in their lives for the most part unlike cheating, selfish American men.I believe that the only reason men resent American women is because they are jealous of all the success that we are gaining.They just want a woman to cater to their lazy asses which they usually find in docile, gutless foreign women like Asians.At the college that I attend, men are much more likely to repeat classes than the women are, especially in the nursing field.Men are a little bit thicker in the head lol Anyways, I know many gorgeous American women who aren’t fat and most have enough intelligence to know that American men aren’t worth crap!
On Sep 2, 2007, jean said:
Clearly, anon above is the “model” American woman- racist, full of ethnic stereotypes, and likely attending some bottom rung college. Your fat ass has probably been dumped by enough real American men that you’re preying on innocent foreign tourists at $10 hostels. Nice.
On Sep 4, 2007, jean 2 said:
i can absolutely guarantee that the ‘anon’ poster is fat. and why is she hanging around a bunch of wanna-be male nurses? talk about desperation - really scraping the bottom of the trash heap, eh?
pathetic.
On Sep 15, 2007, Shells said:
All these ignorant stereotypical beliefs about American women are completely ridiculuos. I think those individuals who are bashing us need to stop taking in the images they see in the media. And IF YOU HAVE actually dated American girls that were not intellectual, slutty, or lazy then that’s a reflection of YOUR selection of girls. Stop picking those types and you’ll find a preponderant number of American women who have depth and conversation. But don’t classify us all as fat and lazy….meet quality US girls!!!!
On Dec 30, 2007, Sophie said:
Get a transexual girlfriend: great sex and no problems…
On Sep 22, 2008, chip said:
Get a latina from latin america you wont be sorry,, I did and have been maried 10 years
I have watched my friends get divorced from there American wives,american woman are the worst in the world” they nag to much and are a pain in the ass;; Better off being single”